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What do you do when you feel desperately lonely? As a gay teen, I feel so ******* lonely. So, so, so ******* lonely. I don't quite know what to do anymore. | | I try to engage in conversation with others on the Internet. It helps for the most part. | Gay relationship...in highschool? My friend Jake has a crush on this guy our french class, I've been looking him over and, he's definitley gay, and hot. I keep telling him that they should go out and they would be so cute together and Jake just laughs but never really does anything about it, one day I brought Vince to lunch with me so they could meet, and they got off great, I was watching them from the next table and there was so much chemistry, but Jake didn't ask him out, the bell rang and he said "See ya" and left, I caught up with him and asked him why he didn't do it, he just looked down and said "I envy you" "Me? Why?" "You don't care what others think of you, your the ******* vice president in a gay rights group, and your straight" "Well don't rub my face in it" then he looked right at me and said "But I do, and it's impossible to have a gay relationship as a teen" Then he left, is this true? It's not possible for gays to date in highschool for fear of being harrassed? Or is that different in some places? | | yes its possible, especially if you're an older teen. | I'm 14 and a guy, and I think I'm gay but I don't want to be gay.? Hi... sooo. I'm a freshman in high school. I don't mean to pour out my life story to you guys, but I don't know where else to go. :/ So yeah. I'm a guy and I'm 14. I'm your average teen. :/ I'm popular, always smiling, play a couple sports, a couple clubs, etc. I've thought I was gay since the summer of 2008. I first started masturbating to gay porn... and I was really attracted to guys and dreamed about them. Fantasized and actually dreamed. And then near the end of a 8th grade, I woke up and realized I had a huge crush on my best friend. Over the summer I got a girlfriend but always felt awkward with her and stuff. I pushed down my crush for my best friend as much as I could. Soon school started and we broke up blah blah blah. And when I got into high school there was this REALLY cute guy that I now have a crush on. His personality is great and he's soooo cute. But I still like my best friend a lot. I told a really close girl friend, and then 2 more. So 3 girls know. I'm not telling anyone else and now that I've admitted I'm gay I can't take it. ;_; I hate that I'm gay. I hatehatehatehate it. I wish I was straight everyday. I can't ******* take it. I read all this stuff on how people are confused in their teens. Is this true? I mean. I know when girls are pretty but I don't like... check them out like I check out guys. I find girls nice and funny but I don't like them like I enjoy guys.... :/ Help on if I'm gay and how I can accept it? | Do you really think any of us 'wanted' to be gay? No one does.
If you are gay, you just have to accept reality, and try to life a happy life anyway. There is no alternative. | My Gay friend lead me on for over 10 years? We have known each other for 20 years. We met when we were 8 and dated as teenagers. He dated lots of woman the whole time, but was also having sexual relationships w/ men as a teen, as well. He was also sleeping w/ women, including myself. When he moved away after high school we lost touch, only writing the occasional letter and phone call. About 5 years ago we got back in touch. By this time he had decided he was fully gay and was in a relationship. He lied and told me he was dating a woman however and sprung the fact that he was gay to me 3 weeks before I was to go up and visit him.
Let me just say we are great friends, first and foremost. I think it's the only thing that has kept us together for so long. We are very giving, loving and honest w/ each other. We have the type of relationship most people would die for. Here is the problem...
Since he came out as gay we have shared a few kisses and tender moments that were NOT planned. A year ago he was diagnosed with AIDS (thanks to his long term partner that had it and didn't tell him) and then jumped into another serious relationship with his Doctor (of all people) after he was diagnosed. We travel over 1,000 miles to see each other still, at least, twice a year. And I am still, hopelessly, madly and forever IN LOVE with him. No matter his status or preference. He feels the same way, but now with everything that has happened, it's so ******* complicated. I have a hard time understanding and finding where the line ends or blurs with him. He tells me things and looks at me certain ways sometimes that create a false sense of hope and desperation.
I need a reality check. Every time I am with him I imagine this life that I know we will never have together. I feel so damn connected to him in every possible way two human beings can be connected. I don't care that he has AIDS. I still want to be with him. There is something seriously wrong with me, right? | | I'm going to get my 10 pts back one way or another so suck it y/a! | Im very troubled...i just need someone to let it all out to. I CHOOSE to keep it all inside. read and respond? the past years of my teen years have been indescribably painful. i choose to keep my personal sexrets like being gay and other sexuality issues inside. i talk to myself silently in my mind all the time, driving me crazy. i dont feel like a belong in this trapping closet. AND TRUST ME. IVE HEARD IT ALL with this closet gay teen bs. im 15. since 13 years old. ive been posting millions of these gay issue yahoo answer blogs. letting it out JUST so i kno people r there. so it feels real. instead of a sufficating hell. dejavu seems to be happenning this sophmore year. things in the past that haunted me are coming back. girls crushing on me. a really good friend, i found out reacently likes me. yesterday was crazy bad. some ridiuclous pointless extremely stupid boys where bothering me with are u gay and calling me one of the ladies bs. i dealt with that with my bro and **** NO i will not deal with that **** anymore. and overcourse the whole being ALONE...completely alone is back. everything feels the same. i so want to be with gay friends. its like a dream to me. this straight world is killing me. last night after coming home i went to my bed and cried alot (which i do very rarely) keeping back my noises.
i have been to therapists and made breakthroughs, such as in depression and anxiety issues. but theres so much more to VENT OUT to someone and talk about. its just inevitable. or i will be eternily miserable. im starting this monday. i have alot to talk about. I HOPE TO ******* GOD it will go okay.
haha i could blab forever. if u have the patience to even read this all i thank u alot =]
as u can see i keep alot tucked inside me away from everyone else. | | you are not alone with your feelings/anxieties. When I was a guy (1940s) I thought I was the only xdresser in the world..so I know a little of what U are going thru. Find a live support group either in your school, or call an organization like AA. They have gay/les/bi members and they might be able to put you in touch with someone in your area. Just be assured, that whatever you are is NORMAL for you, anddon't let any stupid bigots tell you otherwise. | I am sick with depression? I have been depressed for 7 years, 8 once it goes to nov 2011. It doesnt help that i am gay. I hate how ugly i am, and how im becoming fat. I wish i could just starve myself, but food is sometimes the only thing that can make me happy alot of the times. I am not obese, but my parents bring me down alot because of how much of a loser i am. Additionally, i am terrified of driving, because my driving teacher ruined it for me, and i was the worst in that class. My parents constantly berate me for not being able to drive, but i am so afraid of it. Also I am very close to failing one of my classes, and if i do, i will seriously consider suicide, because i do want want to ******* repeat any more highschool, and have the shame of my parents wash over me.
Right now, i am kinda in a weird haze. I started Watching "United States of Tara" and i have become fixated with the character Marshall. He is cute, but not a flamboyant, queeny gay person. It gives me hope to see an average/nerdy gay person finding love. And i have become so attached to this character, that i literally have been watching the show all day for the past two days. I wish i could have someone who could love me, but i feel like i am incompatible with anyone, and will live forever alone. Does anyone know a movie or a story about a gay teen or person who is not flamboyant? I need some hope.. | | If you are struggling dealing with depression then I think it is time for you to enroll in a residential therapeutic school. These kinds of places work because they address all therapies in a way that's specifically designed to honor the needs of a guy who is turning into an adult. By focusing on a treatment plan around the clock, teens are able to make quick transformations in their lives, addressing destructive patterns and replacing them with healthy patterns that are allowed to grow and be nurtured in a safe environment. Good luck. | Sigh, I hate the male gender? I'm a gay teen and I have to ask this: I mean what is our sexual purpose? To ejaculate? Whoops nope, women can do that. To have erections? Wrong again, women can do that too. To be physically strong (don't get me wrong here, I'm a ******* shrimp)? Don't even get me started on that.
I mean I feel so much loathing for a gender that has been rendered virtually pointless. Women can do everything we can do and they can do SO much already such as pregnancy, menstruation and guybirth. I'm really feeling upset and disheartened with my gender.
I almost wish I could be female just so I could feel sexually superior. I mean I don't want to be a woman but I feel like I have no choice. Could anyone give me any advice or a response about this: I'm feeling really torn about what I want right now. No stupid or condascending answers please, I really need some help. | | You need to see a therapist | What's your opinion of this "relationship" ? Okay to begin with I'm a gay teen in 10th grade. I like this guy name Colin! From 4th grade to 8th grade we were good friends, boarder line best friends. People often said we were like twins and there we were inseperable. At the end of 7th grade I told him I liked him via text message. After that he stopped talkin to me for a month or two. Once he foudn out he told one of his other best friends. (last night after hours of prying she told me that when colin told her, he was very freaked out about the fact). During that summer I attended a very special event of his and when I went to say good by he hugged me and whispered in my ear "thanks so much for coming" (I'll never forget it). In 8th grade and 9th grade he slowly declined in talking to me, and now we barely do. And in those years he did something I never thought he would. He went around telling people. Now he ignores me and never invites me to do stuff, but if he has no one else to talk to, he will talk to me and when I broke my wrist he called me to make sure I was okay. He really doesn't even act like a friend to me at all. I texted him asking if he was and all he responded with is: Idk, i just don't know. : Last week on formspring I was anonymously told by supposedly one of his good friend. "Colin doesn't really want to be your friend anymore and he says its ******* awkward beign around you because you like him, He doesn't have the heart to tell you himself because of your past and because your moms are best friends." But as I said, that was anonymous so I can't take that statement for any credit. Do y'all think he wants to be my friend still, just not close, or do you think he really doesn't want to associate with me at all? | | I think you shouldn't want to be associated with him, he sounds like a dick. | Sexuality teen doubts by assosiation? a couple months ago i was talking about how i wasn't sexually attracted to my boyfriend and
how a couple times i just lost interest in my boyfriends so my lesbian friend decides to say
maybe your gay, and i was like no, ew i could never picture myself doing anything with a girl
since then its constantly over obsessivley on my mind,
a couple weeks after i went on vacation and i was at the beach and i was like OMG boys i could never be gay
never have i ever kissed or thought of kissing a girl,ive never even liked a girl or thought of them in any certain way like that,i think its uncomfortable holding hands with a girl, or kissing them on the cheek or even being up close with this its akward, and i don't like most girls in general because their all bitches, i was always boy crazy
and this hole OCD thing about it is ruining everything, i don't wanna be gay, i think of being with girls and its just weird, but then sometimes random things come in my head
I DONT WANT TO BE GAY its just so odd cause ive never thought like that, i'm sexually attracted to guys, but i just haven't liked any lately because my mind is ******* with me if i thinks gunna happen it does out of nowhere. and its making me worry, i'm scared i'm gunna turn gay i dont want to i wanna go make to my normal self BOY CRAZY, these thoughts ruin everything make me not excited for summer, idk what to do it makes me really upset + MY BEST FRIEND IS GAY.
i just wanna be like every other girl , in a long relationship and be in love, but it seems not even possible. | | Your not gay, don't worry about it. You just don't like guys at the moment. Doesn't mean your gay | Are there any good games that arent rated m? I have money but cant get m rated games im allowed to have them its just my mom wont drive down with me to let me get them so i can only ride my bike their and buy t or e games so what ones are actualy good i stopped their yesterday and the only ones i found were sport games and the sims and thats about it are their any actual good games that arent rated m i cant ****** stand the stores polocy its so ******* gay and i hate people who agree on it because ive been playing gta since i was 8 and im a staraight a student never get in trouble in school or outside of school and im a good person so idk what people talk about it messin with your head but it didnt seem to bother me very much but anyways ive never seen a good t for teen or e rated game can someone help me out im going insane i mean me not playing m games thats ridiculous ive been playing them for 6 years and since i was 8 and im 14 and now i cant play them its just like for older people that have been drinking for 6 years that are 27 now and having beer be in no way shape or form avalable to them because they have to be 30 to do it thats how bad it is for me but back to point what are some good games!!!!!! | The reason most "fun" games are rated M is because the rating does not matter. 90% of parents out there will buy the game for their guys regardless or the rating and the company knows this.
This way they can market to guyren and adults with the same games, works good for them. |
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