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Is it normal to have pain deep in your rectum (or somewhere internally) after having anal sex? I met a black guy in a locker room and bent over and let him penetrate me. We lubed it up and he pushed gently for several minutes until my anus relaxed enough for it to go in. He had a massive penis. Then he pushed it in repeatedly. It felt good but also kind of hurt (deep inside, not the anus). Should it feel this way?
I am a bisexual man. My anus burned and itched afterwards as well. And I have had to fart a lot more than usual. | | It may be normal, but it's not healthy. You should probably see a doctor, and listen to the doctor's recommendations about whether it's a good idea for you to have anal sex. | Anal Lesion ?!? About once every 1-3 months or so (infrequently) for at least a couple years I have experienced this weird pain deep in my anus that will only go away if I go through the motions of a bowel movement (whether or not I pass stool) this revieves the pain. Once again, I must stress that this is infrequent and I have not given it much thought, and I am not sure if it is related to the actual reason I'm writing to you.
Pretty much all of a sudden (yesterday) I developed this seemingly pea sized lump of what I'd describe as a medium consistency (press down on it with your finger and it feels pretty soft but it bounces right back up). It also seems to me to be located under the skin, as there has not been any bleeding or obvious open sore. This mass is located pretty much right at the very right side of the opening of my anus. It is not really inside my anus but again right at the opening. Like I said, I don't think it was there before, because it just became painful yestereday. I felt of it when I went to the bathroom last and it seems to buldge out and get a little harder when I strain. As I said it is rather painful but there hasn't been any bleeding that I've seen.
About 1 year ago I was examined by a urologist where he felt inside my anus with his finger and everything according to him was normal then. I am 39 years old, black male, never been in gay life style. Please tell me what you think because this is the last thing I want to see my family doctor for (if you know what I mean.) | | Brain tumor ................................... | My cousin and I had a deep conversation on sex? He's 16(guy) and I am 15(girl), nothing "gross" happened, but we discussed hand jobs, blow jobs, vaginal and anal sex, what he looks for in girls, and I told him what I look for in guys, he really badly wanted to show me his .... , but I told him it was too inappropriate, so he didn't, but later he came back into my room(when it was pitch black out/ nighttime), and took the back of my hand and rubbed his ....(which I don't know if it was or not since it felt like his hand). Would you consider this wrong, or do you think he used his hand to freak me out? Plz answer... | | hillbilly | I.D. this snake please? Is there a website I can go to for identifying snakes? I searched but did not find anything that was comprehensive. I was going to keep this for a pet, but I want to make sure it is not new or endangered.
Can you identify this snake? (sorry no pic)
Found in foot-hills of nepal
Size/Shape
Length 40-50 cm
Width .5(neck) to 1.5 cm, head is slightly larger than neck (.7 cm?)
Top scales are smooth.
Visible portion of top scales is hexagonal in shape.
Bottom scales appear solid across the width of the body,
Eyes are round, not like cats eyes.
Top coloration
Head is black from nose to just behind eyes, pale yellow to neck, black across neck
Body is deep red-brown, more red on the sides. Looks almost black when wet
4 black bands on top of tail
Single Black pen-stripe from tail to middle of yellow band on head
top scales number 14 across the back.
Top scales are smooth, not keeled
On each side there are 14 black scales just above the bottom, running from the head to the middle of the back. They are equally spaced except for the last 3 or 4 which are double spaced. I only counted one side.
I did not count the number of scales lengthwise, but based on the size of top to bottom scales, and estimating both by the number of bands I estimate 210 to 240.
Bottom is white with black bands.
Bands on bottom scales are often broken in the middle.
68 bands by counting one side. It could be up to 76 because I counted bands as one even if they were three times as wide as normal.
most bands were only the width of one scale
Anal plate appears divided but hard to see, tail scales are divided. | | Sounds like either a coral snake or a corn snake but im not sure | Please help. My family is insane. What do I do? I assure you that this is not a joke. Let me tell you a few stories of the members in my family. What is your opinion on them? Are they insane? Will I end up like them? What advice do you have for a 17-year-old living with these kinds of people?
I live with my grandmother and cousin, which I call my mother and brother. My grandmother refuses to fix anything, and is a hoarder. My grandfather is a racist, homophobic, cheater. I have come out of the closet a few times but they take it as a joke even though I insist I am telling the truth. I have lived with them since a very young age because my mother used to beat me as a guy. The last time I had stayed with her for an extended period, she had thrown me out of the house. I was six, had just been grocery shopping, and she had just met a guy. She was performing oral sex at the opposite end of the table whilst my brother and I were talking. I did something to make him cry so she was mad I had interrupted their session and called DCFS, in which my grandmother arrived before they did to save me.
My mother and grandmother will talk for hours daily, and then my grandmother will get on the phone and talk with other for even longer. She says hardly anything. She usually just makes humming noises for hours to them, and repeatedly says yes/no.
I had a few pets over the years but stopped getting them when I found out my grandfather was killing them. He threw the last one into a bus engine. I decided to give it another chance when I took a liking to a stray dog, which I named Shiloh, my favorite movie at the time. My mother whom was visiting saw him, stomped him, and then told me not to bring another mutt around. That was the last I had seen of him. She also had a dog but taped it up when it barked, leaving him in the garage overnight during winter. She awoke the next morning, having to pull off the tape along with hair.
My parents, I believe she 16, he 45, both cousins. My mother was deep into witchcraft, teaching me black magic as a guy along with my two younger siblings. My father left when I was six as well as my mother. He is raising my step-brother and step-sister. She is raising my real-brother and real-sister. She once ran my brother head into a car door laughing because it left a dent. He currently does not know how many hours are in a day, days in a week, days in a year, or his middle name, all at 13. She sold her truck to buy a canoe for a weeklong vacation with my crippled cousin.. Her house was foreclosed on a few days before she decided to go on this trip. She told me she could not afford anything for my birthday nor the holidays because she had just went on vacation. Last year her excuse was plastic surgery. She has dropped out of college almost a dozen times. Her new husband is very weird, going from very lively to extremely shy for no reason. He seems split personality. My mother is very violent, and had beaten her husband before as well as people in stores for no real reason. She has been married many times, and once moved 17 times in a single year. She has had dozzens of boyfriends in the last few years.
My father is a drunk. He robbed his dad of his retirement funds. He stole his mother morpheme when she had anal cancer so he could get high. My brothers (cousins) dad beat his parents intensely on multiple occasions. He went to jail for biting a guys nose off. My mom, dad, 2 uncles, aunts, and grandfather have all been to prison.
My aunt and uncle were running a meth lab, have spent time in prison, have spent time in a mental institution, and are currently homeless. They have a crippled son due to drug use during pregnancy. They spent money for an operation on drugs. They burn furniture to keep warm. They stole a babies gifts last year during the holidays. My cousin got the oppurtinity to move into an apartment for $16 per month with paid utilities because he is crippled (nothing extreme). He refused. He was currently living with a family helping him get on his own, but he refused to go to church, do chores, pay bills, or try to move out because he was not ready for any of the things. They kicked him out.
My other aunt and uncle have just had a baby. They have bought him a computer, all three consoles, a playhouse, jungle gym, a new dog, and an iPad in addition to smaller gifts. He had his first birthday a few weeks ago.
Another aunt and uncle... He is a career criminal and she is a drug addict. They have a retarded son who has many other physical problems.
Keep in mind I am leaving out many stories here. Most of these stories are things that have happened in the last year. | get a job, and save, save, save, save, save
and then move out, and don't tell them where you live
If you're determined not to, then you won't end up like them, trust me
or the other alternative is, if you have any close friends explain the situation to them, and ask if you could stay with them. Offer to help around the house, pay board etc. to show how much you appreciate it. | That or this!!!!? 1. Deep Purple or AC/DC?
2. Fastfood or dine in?
3. basketball or baseball?
4. anal sex or oral sex?
5. pink or black?
6. VH1 or Mtv?
7. Copse Bride or Rose Red?
8. Muffin or donut?
9. FEVER or judasrabbi?
10. devon99889988 or blue margarita? | 1 Deep Purple
2 Dine in
3 Baseball
4 Oral
5 VH1
6 Rose
7 donut
8 ME
9 Neither | Is he gay am I messed up? I fell in love with a wonderful man who doesn't dislike (he's not mean about it) but doesn't support gays (conservative home state), and loves anal and even acting "cute" wearing girls underwear n stuff. I loved it! I thought it was sexy! I'm a woman who used to be bi-experimental and used to even want a penis.I thought this was just another reason we were made for eachother. Now I'm too used to being a woman, want to be a mom, and can't swallow the sex change thing. We had great "normal" sex too btw but I loved being the guy during sex both of us liked it, him deep throating my strap on and me eating him (very clean!), he is soooo sexy and i do love him so much. I married that man (21), and now he suddenly wants a divorce a year in. Won't give me answers that are grounds for divorce, he's being immature and also is telling me he's depressed (after I signed the papers, didn't want to but why torture myself hearing him threaten to divorce me anyways?) he wants to be friends. He used to get really angry suspecting I liked my ex better because of being black saying I liked his penis etc. The truth is they are practically identical in size and I couldnt care less. My husband ends up telling me he fantasizes about being gang banged by black cock because he's obsessed with size (I recently tried to find him a HuGE ********* and dildo). He told me about his fantasies recently (during our divorce) says he's not gay but it turns him on, I already know this and don't know why he's telling me this now. It hurts me because I still masturbate to him, not getting gang banged by other ppl!!! Also, is he possibly gay? I masterbated to gay porn (I have before) but imagined him and this black guy I was so distracted by what he emailed that I couldn't imagine me as the black guy and imagined him getting pleasures by someone else. I tried to masturbate through it and it was wierd and I ended up crying. (I've happy cried from release b4, this was depressed scared crying). WTF is wrong with me? I still have feelings for him obviously and confessed to him that's y I'm not ready to hear such things. He hasn't contacted me since (it's been atleast 5 days) and I want him to be comfortable saying anything to me but I thoght it was unhealthy. I had a nightmare last night that he left me for a guy like me gay best friend. I'm already getting more depressed about losing him and yesterday being valentines sucked of course. (wouldn't remember but my family and media etc). Please give me any advice I'm very sad and confused. Thank you. | don't put yourself down. You found him and how to deal with him and
you can find another one or few. Be open to new experiences. A number
of people feel as you do and like non committal relationships. | Here is a question for all you cat experts!help? I have an adult cat. Nobody know for sure what gender it is. It is so hard to tell. It could be a female, but then it could be a neutered male. It's anal area and everything might kinda look like a boy, but it also looks like a female cat's thing area.
REASONS WHY I THINK IT IS A GIRL:
-saggy belly. (it might have had some litters of kittens in the past and now has a stretched out belly.
-no balls.
-meows, but not as deep and loud as my old male cat.
-licks and grooms my other cat, which is a male kitten.
-does not roam really at all like my old male cat.
-Iooks like a girl
-isn't as playful and wild as males are
-does not like it's belly touched.
-her teats look a little big or wierd looking probably maybe from having litters of kittens?
REASONS IT MIGHT BE A BOY:
-it looks, (it's anal area) it MIGHT have been neutered.
-it roams a little bit
-i heard males sometimes buddy up with other male cat's, BUT they aren't REALLY close. Sometimes it hisses at the male kitten.
***********So, i think that is it about this beautiful, or handsome black cat. I want to know, so i can get them collars for there gender. ( i don't wanna get a pink collar if the black one turns out to be a male) you know? and i am calling the cat Cleo because i think it is a girl. I really don't want it memorizing the name cleo if it turns out to be a boy.
I NEED HELP AND PLEASE GIVE ME FACTUAL INFO on your experience, even websites that will REALLY HELP me too!
thank you and i will appreciate it SO much!!! :) | Alot of female cats get the "saggy belly" thing going on after their spayed. Both of my females have it, one worse than the other! Also, females can have little "tuffs" of fur around their vagina that could possibly look like what once was a scrotum filled with testicles.
A female will have a small slit that is her vagina, where as a male cat with have a small pin hole where his penis risides :) Google something like "how to tell a male from female cat"...some sites may have pics to help you. Older cats are much easier to tell than small kittens... | Can you file a complaint about a principal that interrogates you very um.... inappropriately.? so its my first encounter ever with my principal.... im a straight A student. And i was walking down the hall and out of no where he is like you can't leave the lunchroom until lunch... so immediately i knew what he was talking about... and i informed him that i was passing by this isn't my lunch hour i had to get a pass from my teacher so that i wouldn't get detention. So after i told him he was like... you should have taken the detention and got the pass later. I told him... no im not that typ of person maybe it was because i was black he said that... im thinking are you incouraging me to accept detention as inane more than a serious punishment... i mean it isnt to me but the fact that this guy won't even respect me enough to look me in my eye... lol.... i mean last year i was not a bright student but im chanign all of that... because im at a new school. But he wouldn't know anything because i dont have a record or anything. My grades were just kinda off. Its crazy because i decided not to be like some students and fall into his trap and then he went on to tell me that i was wasting class time.... i was thinking well im wasting time talking to you... and i was going to tell him how irrelevant his questions are and how my teacher told me to do this and im only trying to do the right thing but he was getting all heated and ready to try and like suspend me... i wanted to laugh at how ignorant he was. And then he kept saying im wrong and im this and that... and he was being very anal about everything. Oh well... i should stole off on em cuz he was getting on my nerves. not once did i rasie my voice but im just wondering how he alll of a sudden developed such a deep hatred or anger towards... me im not saying he is racist i mean he hasn't said it himself.... but there are alot more dtails i just was flabbergasted because it was so inane that i dont even like him anymore and i want someone to know how he acts. Like i said there is a lot more crazy parts to the story like him yelling at my friend because she said hi to me... it was stupid.... we weren't being smart allics either. | | You really need to contact the local school district office and speak with them about him. | Please read an opening paragraph? I'm sort of anal about fiction writing, and I'm a little short on non-baised readers. Basically, before I send out a manuscript that was requested, I want to make sure the opening language is enough of a hook to make the editor request more (since I'm sending in a 20 paged sample as opposed to a full manuscript). I will have to remove this question before mailing out, however, since publishing it on here could violate some first-publishing rights if the litigation department wanted to get technical. Sorry for the long intro, but any outside perspective would be AMAZING! Thanks!
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There were many hills in Copper Grove, but one in particular had a long winding wall, a peach tree, and a terrible history. From my house it appeared pitch-black at dusk, silhouetted against a striped-sweater sky of beige and tender pink. At night, however, the moon glowed as cold as death upon it, making the tall grass look like shimmering, spectral hair when the wind blew. The stone wall, not very tall but long and spindly, glowed as white and jagged as a dragon’s spine, and divided the hill along its crest.
On one side of this wall, the one not facing the town, Sara Blakeley was found dead from exposure. No one was sure what had happened, nor had anyone bothered to peer over the wall in the knee-deep snow for almost a week until after she had been missing. That was nearly two years ago, and yet, because of the lingering guilt surrounding this place, I was not at all surprised to be sitting atop this wall in absolute solitude. | This looks pretty good... though the word "...upon..." is unneeded when '...on...' works.
I hope you realize most publishers, agents and editors utilize 'query letters' before looking at any sample of a manuscript.
To find out more about "How To Publish"...Suggest you read the section of the same name in "The Writer's Market."
It will tell you how write a good query (with examples of 'good' and 'bad') and includes many tips by experts in the field, including writers, publishers, editors, agents,
"Predators and Editors" and a whole lot more.
If you can't afford a current copy, suggest you study that first section at a public library: make notes, copy relevant pages there... know it very very well.
Then you have a better chance to be paid to publish and not the other way around.
Good luck.
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Maybe these brief, correct and good tutorials will help...
"A Writer's Guide to Style" fav.me/d2cd6gt
"Talk Less, Say More" fav.me/d24w8w8
"Write Better Dialogue" fav.me/d215ibh
"Adverbs and Word Hierarchy" fav.me/d29j49d
"Creating Dynamic Characters" fav.me/d20el9z
All are safe links...there are more if you use 'Show All' at upper left.
Congratulations on the request for a partial manuscript and more good luck to you. End Edit |
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